Srimad-Bhagavatam: Canto 3 - Chapter 14 - Verse 20
Srimad-Bhagavatam: Canto 3 - Chapter 1 - Verse 20 Sanskrit: यामाश्रित्येन्द्रियारातीन्दुर्जयानितराश्रमै: ।वयं जयेम हेलाभिर्दस्यून्दुर्गपतिर्यथा ॥ २० ॥ ITRANS: yām āśrityendriyārātīndurjayān itarāśramaiḥvayaṁ jayema helābhirdasyūn durga-patir yathā Translation: As a fort commander very easily conquers invading plunderers, by taking shelter of a wife one can conquer the senses, which are unconquerable in the other social orders. Purport: Of the four orders of human society — the student, or brahmacārī order, the householder, or gṛhastha order, the retired, or vānaprastha order, and the renounced, or sannyāsī order — the householder is on the safe side....